{"id":244837,"date":"2022-03-25T09:53:00","date_gmt":"2022-03-24T20:53:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.barbararelph.com\/uncoupling\/?p=244837"},"modified":"2022-03-22T12:54:56","modified_gmt":"2022-03-21T23:54:56","slug":"unlucky-in-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.barbararelph.com\/uncoupling\/unlucky-in-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Unlucky in Love?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Many people say they have looked, but there\u2019s just no one out there that they would want to have a relationship with. There are many ways to have a relationship and looking beyond the traditional can be eye-opening.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A key factor here is attitude. Having an open mind is not the same as having low standards \u2013 it just means your perfect partner may not be what you imagined, but they can still be perfect. 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