{"id":244755,"date":"2022-03-04T14:55:37","date_gmt":"2022-03-04T01:55:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.barbararelph.com\/uncoupling\/?p=244755"},"modified":"2022-03-04T17:06:23","modified_gmt":"2022-03-04T04:06:23","slug":"helping-a-friend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.barbararelph.com\/uncoupling\/helping-a-friend\/","title":{"rendered":"Helping a friend going through a separation"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.barbararelph.com\/uncoupling\/recommends\/video1\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"322\" height=\"296\" src=\"https:\/\/www.barbararelph.com\/uncoupling\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/UGVideo1_sm.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-244768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.barbararelph.com\/uncoupling\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/UGVideo1_sm.jpg 322w, https:\/\/www.barbararelph.com\/uncoupling\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/UGVideo1_sm-300x276.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 322px) 100vw, 322px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Barbara discusses how to help a friend, colleague or family member thinking about separating or stuck in the separation process. 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